Hello, you. :)
Ever wondered why it's so easy to love somebody else, better, than how you love yourself?
We are all human, and we often seek for the perfections.
Perfection is never exist, but Acceptance does.
#1. Comparison Virus
Apple or Orange?
If Apple judges Orange,
Orange will judge Apple too.
Our comparison habit brings us to the level where we judge people and ourselves.
We all beautifully different one to another.
And let's bring our comparison habit to something more positive:
Negative: I'm talkative, but B is not, besides, B is too quiet. Why doesn't B talkative like me?
Positive: I'm talkative, but B is not, it's perfect. I have a friend who will listen to my stories patiently.
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Negative: C is so beautiful, I wonder how I could look like that?
Positive: C is so beautiful. I can learn on how to be more beautiful from being with her, maybe it's the way she eats clean food, her personality, or the aura she has.
If it's good for me, and she is succeed with those steps, therefore I can do it too.
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#2. How do you see yourself?
So, how do you see yourself? Are you comparing yourself to another person?
If you think you're not good enough, list here, why:
After you list down, now you know why you feel not good,
And here's the steps for value yourself.
You need to :
- relax, don't take everything seriously.
- proud of your strengths
- looking on your good personality and value.
- dreams you already achieved
In that way, you already are more than enough.
#3. See yourself as a team, a best friend, a soul mate.
Take a minute to think that you were, are and will always be with yourself, so make it fun and be nice to yourself.
You know every thought and action inside yourself.
So isn't it be good if you keep your attention before think or do something?
Be aware of everything will decrease regretful feeling.
Before say something, imagine if your sentence will be helpful or making them upset.
Before do something, imagine if you'll be thankful you're doing this or regret it.
We should treat ourselves very nicely,
I, myself treat myself in a luxurious way,
My routine is waking up and meditate,
Joining e-courses that suits my hobbies.
And I try to be more aware in every situation.
To compliment, appreciate and care to people.
It's all started with one step to make it soon become a habit like this.
And what routine is best for you?
What do you like to do?
What makes you feel inspired in the morning?
Is breakfast helping you to stay on the mood until lunch time?
Who's the person you want to talk the most?
Is postpone task will help you to achieve the desire result?
What is your goal in one year, and are your habit right now helping that dream closer to you?
You know yourself more, you can choose what you love to do,
And you can choose what actions benefit you.
Take control of your life and don't just 'let it flow'.
It's true that we need to adapt in order things happened not like our expectation.
We need to react smartly,
To whatever happen.
And stand up again.
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#4. Accept That We Are Not Perfect, but We Deserve The Best.
Just because you are not perfect, doesn't mean you don't deserve the best.
You are worthy of love and deep inside, you know that.
It's okay not to be perfect,
We always can try to be better.
For you who try your best, even it will not reach the perfections, it's okay.
You deserve the best.
We accept the love we think we deserve.
either it the people who support you, the special someone to spend the rest of your life with,
the places you want to go, the dreams you have in years.
I think you deserve it. :)
Hope you enjoy this blogpost, and if you wanna add more tips or questions, simply comment below :)
Count your blessings.
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